If you have been wondering what more you could learn about life, you might just have visited the right place. For some odd reasons, I realise there are many people who have been through the same things as I am when I am young. Just in case you are not 22 yet (or you haven't face the situation) you might want to take the best precautions in preventing future damages (by that I meant mental and physical or even property).
1. In life, you are going to doubt the right person and trusting the wrong one. Well, what you can do is to never trust anyone 100%. People can or may habitually be selfish at times.
2. If you are not good in managing your money, ask your dad to save it. In most cases, dad is better at it. However, feel free to give it to whom you trust the most. I believe I am really good at saving, but I often get cheated when purchasing something. I am that kind of independent (?) person who prefer to make my own decision especially if it is in regards of me alone (or if you give your consent for me to have a control over you).
3. Don't let anyone to touch you. They will leave you after they get what they want. If they really want you, they will marry you for real. In that, don't set 'duit hantaran' too high. If you think you need to put high price for yourself, you are eventually not loving him, but his money. You will be happier if you could make him happy as well (not forcing him to make a loan or change his focus totally on you until he could not focus on his job which eventually functions to feed you)
*I will continue later on.
Salam Aidiq. I will always support you in whatever you think and you do. May Allah always bless you son
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